The Color of Water

The Color of Water

A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother

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"Who is Ruth McBride Jordan? A self-declared "light-skinned" woman evasive about her ethnicity, yet steadfast in her love for her twelve black children. James McBride, journalist, musician, and son, explores his mother's past, as well as his own upbringing and heritage, in a poignant and powerful debut, "The Color Of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother." The son of a black minister and a woman who would not admit she was white, James McBride grew up in "orchestrated chaos" with his eleven siblings in the poor, all-black projects of Red Hook, Brooklyn. "Mommy," a fiercely protective woman with "dark eyes full of pep and fire," herded her brood to Manhattan's free cultural events, sent them off on buses to the best (and mainly Jewish) schools, demanded good grades, and commanded respect. As a young man, McBride saw his mother as a source of embarrassment, worry, and confusion--and reached thirty before he began to discover the truth about her early life and long-buried pain."--Publisher website.
Publisher: New York : Riverhead Books, 2006.
Edition: 1st Riverhead trade pbk. 10th anniversary ed.
ISBN: 9781594481925
Call Number: SOCIAL SCIENCES/African American
974.7 MCBRIDE
Characteristics: xix, 301 p. : ill. ; 21 cm
Subjects: McBride-Jordan, Ruth, 1921-2010.
McBride, James, 1957-
Racially mixed people -- New York (State) -- New York -- Biography.
Mothers -- New York (State) -- New York -- Biography.
Whites -- New York (State) -- New York -- Biography.
Racially mixed people -- Race identity.
New York (N.Y.) -- Biography.

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Peggy Hendry
Sep 11, 2020

The New York Times ran an excerpt from Deacon King Kong, and I had to read the whole book immediately. I'd never heard of James McBride before that, and now I am binge-reading all his books.

The Color of Water has an interesting structure, alternating chapters between an interview he did with his mother about her life, and his own memories of her, his childhood, and his journey to becoming a man. This structure gives the book scope in time and in experience.

I will never forget what his mother said about God: "God is the color of water." Amen, and hallelujah.

The book is so moving that I had trouble putting it down.

And if you haven't read Deacon King Kong, go get it now. Yes, now. McBride makes the people, time, and place so vivid I felt I was actually there. The characters have grace and dignity as well as human frailty. They are real people to me.

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fldamato
Aug 04, 2020

Living in the south where we no longer have signs on water as black or white.
I say the color of water is clear.
His Mom brought up a great son

neyoscribbles Mar 07, 2020

An insightful glimpse into what it was to be Ruth, the author’s mother who was born a Jewish woman but converted into Christianity. Religion and race aside, Ruth’s sheer determination to succeed in life regardless of all the obstacles she had to experience tenfold, is truly inspiring. This book was very difficult to put down and it was a fast read considering the chapters alternate between Ruth and the author providing two different perspectives. At times I found it difficult that Ruth, a white woman simply did not accept being white and would not discuss the topic of colour as she raised 12 children. But as you read, you realize that Ruth is not having an identity crisis, rather she wants to be identified as a human and not one who identifies by the categories dictated by her/our society. This memoir felt very personal and this touching story will stay with you for a while.

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MB85CAL
Feb 05, 2019

Outstanding. Simply at once touching, humorous, moving masterpiece of writing. A must read, definitely. Once you start reading this memoir, you cannot put it down. Highly recommend.

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redoute
Aug 04, 2018

This is an important and timeless book. I am grateful that the author and his mother were willing to share their stories with the world.
There are more and more biracial/multiracial individuals in this country. Many of them could profit from listening to the author's experience. I would love to hear the stories of other multiracial people!
In addition, McBride's writing is beautiful and spellbinding!

CMLibrary_KimUC Nov 15, 2016

McBride’s revealing memoir also uncovers the remarkable story of his mother, Ruth. Through weaving the story of his childhood with that of his mother’s narrative, McBride offers an inspiring and uplifting tribute to his family as well as to the human spirit which can transcend the barriers of race, class, and generation.

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sess430
Nov 01, 2016

A loving and well written book, part biography and part memoir as the chapters alternate between the author's life growing up in Brooklyn's Red Hook housing project and the recounting of his mother's life in Suffolk, Virginia as the victimized daughter of a Jewish rabbi.

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JanPruatt
Jul 27, 2016

James McBride -- where have you been? Sorry I never read this book earlier. It is truly a classic.

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ivydharma
May 04, 2016

An amazing book. Not only is it very well written, but the true story is fascinating: a Jewish white mother who will not admit she is white. Because of the so-called dysfunctional situation being infused with so much love, the children turned out just great, by all accounts. I would highly recommend this book.

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gingerreads
Mar 06, 2016

A true story about a selfless and gutsy woman who sees everyone through the same lens regardless of race or religion. Her life was not an easy one.

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Tjad2LT
Jul 17, 2017

Now, as a grown man, I feel privileged to have come from two worlds. My view of the world is not merely that of a black man but that of a black man with something of a Jewish soul. I don't consider myself Jewish, but when I look at Holocaust photographs of Jewish women whose children have been wrenched from them by Nazi soldiers, the women look like my own mother and I think to myself, There but for the grace of God goes my own mother-and by extension, myself.

SnoIsleLib_BrianH Jun 22, 2017

“The plain truth is that you’d have an easier time standing in the middle of the Mississippi River and requesting that it flow backward than to expect people of different races and backgrounds to stop loving each other, stop marrying each other, stop starting families, stop enjoying the dreams that love inspires. Love is unstoppable. It is our greatest weapon, a natural force, created by God.
― James McBride, The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother

SnoIsleLib_BrianH Jun 22, 2017

“I asked her if I was black or white. She replied "You are a human being. Educate yourself or you'll be a nobody!”
― James McBride, The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother

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JanPruatt
Jul 27, 2016

"Go away!" I shouted to the boy in the mirror. "Get on out!"

Violet_Lion_31 Aug 01, 2013

"...I resolved to jump back into my studies and rebuild myself. Like my own mother did in times of stress, I turned to God. I lay in bed at night praying to Him to make me strong, to rid me of anger, to make me a man, and He listened, and I began to change."

Violet_Lion_31 Aug 01, 2013

"Mommy's tears seemed to come from somewhere else, a place far away, a place inside her that she never let any of us children visit, and even as a boy I felt there was pain behind them."

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JanPruatt
Jul 27, 2016

Subtitled – A Black Man’s Tribute to his White Mother, McBride takes us to the public housing projects of New York City where he and 11 brothers and sisters live. They are all black. James knows there is something different about his mother. When asked, she would declare – “I’m light-skinned,” and change the subject. As years went by, James learned about his mother, her Jewish background and the mysteries of her life that unfolded, bit by bit. In short, Ruth McBride eventually told him her story of being a rabbi’s daughter, born in Poland and raised in the South, who fled to Harlem, married a black man, founded a Baptist church, and put the twelve children through college.

This book is also on the list of 75 best books in the last 75 years. An engrossing story and on the best-seller list back in the mid- to late-90s. It is truly a classic.

Brown_Dog_365 Jun 27, 2012

This book is about a man who is writing about his mother's life. The mother was a Jewish woman, who in the 1950s married an African American man. She was "thrown" out of her family for what she had done, and her and her children were made fun of by other people. She never really talked about race and her life story with her children, and so they lived a very closed life style. They didn't ever think about pressuring their mother for the information that they desperately wanted to know about. They grew up in poverty, but they always managed to make it by. And to top that off, everyone was sent to college and became very successful people. Finally James McBride one of the twelve children finds out about their mother's life, and then writes a book about it. The story is a wonderful one, and is sure to bring tears of joy and sadness to your eyes.

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